In 2008 I reached my limit of playing by the rules of an overbearing authoritarian cultural / religious structure that I had tried to follow obediently my entire life. For my whole life I had tried to be the good girl, and tried to get right…Instead, it had only made me increasingly depressed and angry. I said, out loud, in that church’s testimony meeting, with every fiber of my being shaking and excited, “this is not working for me. This is killing me. I am me. I am going to go beyond these 4 walls to find out all about prosperity. I know you can have a life of prosperity beyond these four walls! I am going to go find out All about living beyond what these boundaries have defined ME and LIFE as being… I don’t know what that means. But I am starting …That’s all I have to say. Thank you.” Saying that in a testimony meeting in this religion had been virtually unheard of by anyone up to that point. Since then, vocal dissension by brave people is becoming a common occurrence.
For 3 years I plugged away at work as a nurse, and I felt a bit freer, having shed one cloak of ideology that was not working for me.
But much more still was bubbling up to be alchemized. I was looking for a good place to be as a nurse. Instead, I found myself hopping from job to job, hoping that this would be ‘it.’ That somehow, things would work out. I was judging myself as somehow wrong every time I left a job. The pain of self judgment stings!
In 2011, I reached another point. I was exhausted and depleted and disenfranchised with my work. Nurses bleed out in the profession. They literally burnout and leave. Half of them leave the profession within five years of becoming a nurse. That is the kind of ‘health’ care of the current structure. So what did I do? I quit my floor job. I demanded that things change in my life. I was pleading for something new to please find me. Then I came across the work of Dr Dain Heer, co founder of Access Consciousness, and author of Being You, Changing The World.
Although I was in the best shape of my life, having just run a marathon, and a supposedly acceptable size 10, according to society’s standards, I was miserable. I was inflicting loads of self judgment. I was torturing my body with extreme calorie counting and forceful obsessive exercise. I listened to Dain on the radio while stretching, having just finished a run. I was so anxious for relief. Dain had us do an exercise. He asked us to pick an area that we were upset with, an area we were in huge amounts of judgment with. I thought to myself, “Ha! That’s Easy! I have so many!” I picked my body image. He asked us to repeat several times with him out loud, “Interesting Point Of View I Have This Point Of View.” That shifted things for me instantly, for the first time, ever. Up to that point I was using every alternative modality and new age technique and teaching under the sun. They would work for a little while before the emotional pain would creep back in. I was just so-so in life. So, I was still stuck in the pattern I had learned of trying to get it right, and be good.
I began utilizing the tools of Access Consciousness. As I have continued to do so, life has and continues to get easier and more joyful. I have, in the area of prosperity particularly, already exceeded my wildest expectations for my life. And I know it is just the tip of the iceberg. For example, I now live in a 7 bedroom 5 bathroom house on 0.5 acres. I have more space available to me. I know what it is to receive, in a whole new way. How did I get here? By utilizing the tools of Access Consciousness! Please get that Access Consciousness is not an answer. It is not a community. Rather, it is a set up tools, techniques, and processes designed to facilitate you to change whatever isn’t working for you. These tools help you to have more ease and joy with whatever is going on in your life. And to empower you to know that you know. For some great tools, refer to my blog post “How To Change Anything – Four Tools To Get Unstuck Fast.“
I am not going to say that because of Access Consciousness or Dr Dain Heer, I am healed. I am not going to say that bells and choirs of “Ah!’ make up my current life. Becoming more conscious is a journey, not a destination. What I will say is that as I apply the tools to my life and living, I am aware I am much more me and much more free. I am much more aware of my capacity to facilitate people around me to have greater choices, possibilities, as well as more ease, joy, & glory. I know I have infinite choice and access to infinite possibilities. I enjoy life more than ever before, and I have witnessed numerous miracles. I look forward to the future with much optimism and know I create miracles!
There are no tricks to being you. There are no secrets. There are no steps. The willingness to go beyond what is defined to a place of vulnerability and courage…That my friends is where the space of being you begins.
What if you could wake up every day again with a wild enthusiasm for being alive?
You are invited to a very special event. Being You The Extended Adventure 1.5 Day Event is coming to Utah August 12&13th, 2016! This class has no prerequisites and every event is uniquely created by the people who choose to come. Together, we’ll go on a journey of creation…to a space that has never existed before. It’s one of the most undefined events of its kind, it’s only when you define something that you can limit it. Ever notice? Come here for more information. Check out the facebook event page here.
These classes are facilitated by special Being You facilitators worldwide and can give you an energetic experience of being that you won’t find anywhere else…The fabulous Donnielle Carter is facilitating this class. She is an author of Right Body For You, and an extraordinary facilitator. My aunt had one bars session and read this book, and within a few months, had shed 4 clothing sizes! It’s phenomenal to help you experience more joy and ease and being with your body.
One thing I know for sure, is that government will not change this world. Ideologies or belief systems of any kind will not change this world. Those institutions and belief structures are designed to perpetuate themselves consistently, as well as maintain judgment and limitation. When we buy into those paradigms as being the answer, we destroy possibilities for a sustainable future on this planet. We destroy possibilities. When we align and agree with maintaining judgment of any kind, we have no choice other then continue to kill each other and the planet. Is that what you desire?
So, with that, take a breath. Let Go. Good.
Consciousness includes everything and judges nothing. . . .
Now. Take another breath. ….
Oneness includes everything and judges nothing. . . .
I ask you to drop your barriers and expand out. Just Ask yourself to do so. You know. You always know.
Now, I have a question for you.
What if you being you is the gift, magic, and change this world requires?
Is now the time to be what and who you actually came here to be?
Welcome to Being You The Extended Adventure!
I invite you to check out Dain Heer’s special book Being You Changing The World. Would choosing to peruse or read that be light for you? This is available in book form and also audio book. For a FREE AUDIO of his first chapter, sign up here. Or, listen below. Choices Gallore!
What can we contribute to consciousness today? Cheers! ~Victoria
Growing up, most of us are schooled in science, math, social studies, PE, and if we are lucky, arts and music to some extent. Most of us then do what’s expected of us as adults. We get a job, marry, and have kids. Along the way we have not been given one crucial piece of information.
Everything is energy. That’s right – EVERYTHING. That includes you, these words you are reading, the device you are reading this on, and the clothes you are wearing. Physics tells us, that on an atomic level, 99.9999% of an atom actually is made up of space. It’s the 0.0001% that is solid and real mass. That leaves us a lot of wiggle room.
Could we, then, interact with the space between the molecules? What if we could acknowledge our capacities to manipulate energies? What would happen then? Might we also have the capacity to change energies?
We all have the ability to manipulate energy, and we all use it to some extent. For example, I dropped 35lbs in 6 months just a few years ago. I manipulated the energies. Yes, it was forced, but the weight loss did occur. Without changing the underlying patterns, however, true change does not occur. This is the reason why so many people gain back what weight they lost. You’ve got to get to the energetics of the issue. Will alone is not enough.
Last August I had an experience where the energetics required changing in order for me to heal a scary condition. I had a spider bite the size of a golf ball that became infected with MRSA. After nearly three weeks of visiting physicians, antibiotics, and hands on Access body process treatments, nothing appeared to be changing. I was wondering what else is possible? I was up at Tony Grove Campground receiving an Access Bars® session. The combined energy of the pine trees and the clearing taking place on a subatomic level from having my bars running resulted in an immediate decrease in the size of the golf ball sized spider bite by half. I knew right then and there that everything would be ok and that it had received healing. The next day it was the size of grape. And in three days it was peanut size. In 4 days it was gone.
What I realize now was going on was that I was willing to receive the energy that contributed to the change I was asking for. And, further, I did not have attachment to the result of the outcome, or the way the change showed up.
Most of us are taught to deny our capacities starting in childhood. We are not taught how to truly receive. We are told we must have the right answer, again, and again, until it is entrained in us. We are not taught that we know. If we do know, we learn to shun that knowing. But what happens to some of us occasionally, as what occurred for me in Tony Grove, was purely magical.
Magic is the ability to change anything instantaneously. – Gary Douglas, founder of Access Consciousness®
Below are 4 simple, magical tools from the toolkit I am using known as Access Consciousness®. You can use to receive the change you are asking for. But don’t use them if you aren’t ready for change. You will change!
Light & Heavy
The way to begin to tap into your magic begins simply by following and choosing what is light for you. For instance, you have a choice to make on what school to attend. Here is how you know what works best for you: When something is true for you, there are signals sent to you and/or your body. It will light up your world. It will bring a sigh of relief to your body. However, if something is a lie, you will pause. You feel something is off. It is heavy. You will sense your world contract. Do not choose that.
Albert Einstein has said
“If I had an hour to solve a problem and my life depended on the answer, I would spend the first 55 minutes figuring out the proper questions to ask. For if I knew the proper questions, I could solve the problem in less than 5 minutes.”
Question everything! What if it is simply your job to ask, and the universe’s job to deliver? Here are some great questions for starters –
How does it get any better than this? Ask this question when something good happens, and when something bad happens.
What else is possible? If you are stuck, with anything, I highly recommend this question. This question alone has changed my world.
Note for the reader: For the rest of this article, I invite you to keep an open mind. The tools are weird and wacky, and they work! They are assisting thousands of people around the world to change whatever isn’t working in their lives. Are you next?
Who does this belong to?
From the Access Consciousness® website:
What’s This All About?Have you ever felt sad for no reason? Have you ever felt suddenly angry or happy and didn’t know why? You might consider that some thoughts, feelings and emotions you are having are not even yours. How would your life be different if most of them aren’t? Would it be easier? More joyful?
What if you are way more psychic than you think, and you assume that all the thoughts, feelings and emotions you have are yours? Who’s life are you living? In Access Consciousness we have the point of view that all the thoughts, feelings and emotions you are experiencing aren’t yours, and there is this simple and easy tool (one of the greatest tools in Access) that will give you more freedom if you are willing to ask a question.
So if you are interested in having an easier, more fun and more joyful life… keep reading to find out the tool, if you are not interested in having an easier, more fun, and more joyful life then stop reading; otherwise you could change your life!
1. The Tool
Okay, so the tool is: Who Does This Belong To? Just ask this question for every thought, feeling and emotion you have and if it feels lighter at all, then it’s not yours. And after that, the only thing you have to do is return it to sender.
Easy enough for you? Would you be willing to give it a try? What do you have to lose? All the thoughts, feelings and emotions that are not yours!!! So, if you are brave enough to find out how many of the thoughts, feelings and emotions you are having that are not yours … then take the 3-DAY CHALLENGE!
2. The Challenge
For every thought, feeling and emotion you have during the 3-days ask, “Who Does This Belong To?” then return it all to sender. Don’t bother to find out where it came from—just return it, and see what shows up in your life
Participate with us! Join the Who Does This Belong To? Facebook group
One last thing to add about using this particular question as a tool. If you’ve asked “Who does this belong to?” and the heaviness is still in your world, somewhere you have bought it as yours. That is where the next tool comes in. The clearing statement.
The more you ask questions, the more you will see results and will get excited to ask even more questions. There are 2 resources a recommend to delve in further.
#1 The Book 91 Days Of Q
What would it be like to LIVE IN THE QUESTION? 91 Days of Q is a daily three-month collection of questions to help keep you in the zone. Each question is accompanied by examples and background for how and when you might use it…also filled with questions to keep you opening doors to possibilities.
#2 Inquiry Cards by Sylvia Nibley
Access Consciousness® Clearing Statement
The clearing statement is a fabulous tool to change anything. Anywhere you sense a block or limitation in your way, or are stuck, use this tool!
“We cannot solve our problems with the same level of thinking we used when we created them.” – Einstein
What are The Bars? They are 32 bars of energy that run through and around your head that connect to different aspects of your life. The Bars store the electromagnetic component of all the thoughts, ideas, attitudes, decisions and beliefs that you have ever had about anything. There are Bars for healing, body, control, awareness, creativity, power, aging, sex and money, etc. Each Bar corresponds with that aspect or area of your life that it is named. When I touch the Bars on your head you begin to clear away the energy locked up in that area or aspect of your life.
How does having my Bars run benefit you? Everyone experiences something different. And every time they have their bars run they experience something different. People have reported that after their Bars session they felt more relaxed, have more energy, slept better than they have in months, have more clarity, depression and anxiety faded, less triggered by certain people or situations, clearing of things not working in their life, improved mental clarity, etc.
You can contact me for an Access Bars® and Access Body Process session here. You can learn more about and register for upcoming Access Consciousness® & Access Bars® classes here.
Article: How to change anything – 4 Access Consciousness® Tools to get unstuck now
I had a spider bite the size of a golf ball that became infected with MRSA. After nearly three weeks of healing treatments and wondering what else is possible, I was up at Tony Grove Campground receiveing an Access Bars® session. The combined energy of the pine trees and the clearing from having my bars running resulted in an immediate decrease in the size of the golf ball by half. I knew right then and there that everything would be ok and that it had received healing. The next day it was the size of grape. And in three days it was peanut size. In 4 days it was gone.
Aug 31, 2014
I was at Costco standing in a long line to get pizza for dinner. I decided to pay for the persons’ behind me dinner. I turned around, and this Lavish drag queen, decked out to the hilt, was smiling at me. (Keep in mind, this is Utah). I give the cashier $5. The drag queen and I and my tot end up sitting together for dinner. I was absolutely vulnerable and no judgment was in my world. I asked that money to return to me $100 fold. Within a couple days, someone bought my entire rock collection for $135. Coincidence?
Sept 2, 2014
I have to brag. 4 new shirts, 3 new jeans, 1 new exercise outfit, 1 lingerie, 2 necklaces, and one Wild Women Symposium dress for: $50 some odd buckaroos! There was a 50% labor day sale at consignment shop. The clothes are wonderful for my body. My body Loves them! I had just cleared the closet out a few days earlier of about 50lbs and 30 clothes I hadn’t worn. One I hadn’t worn since 1999! It was like a took a huge energetic dump when I got rid of those clothes, which allowed an opening for clothes that my body enjoys to come in.
Magic is the ability to change anything instantaneously. – Gary Douglas, founder of Access Consciousness®
Do you have a story of everyday magic? Share in the comments below!